I sit down to write feeling energetic. I have a plan. A purpose. And with the house quiet, it is time to start working.

A cloud fell over my spring plans for chicks and ducklings and goslings and the garden when an order of chicks got left in a sorting facility rather than sent on and all the chicks arrived dead. We were defeated before we began and I wondered how many more springs I could look forward to by telling myself, “This year will be different.” How long before I give it up and accept that everything I do will be marked by failure?

But then the responses started coming in about our little road trip for Tiggy’s House and I was busy trying to juggle schedules for stops in Kansas, Oklahoma and Texas. And so many people asked us about heading east that we’re already sketching out possibilities for September. It’s a good busy. And a reminder of why we are here.

So I close my eyes to my own feelings of failure and determine to move forward with the plans that have been made.

And then I walk by the incubator and see a chick. And an egg cracking. And suddenly all of our dreams for this property seem possible again.

So I sit down to write, feeling more energetic than I remember feeling since before that night. That horrible night that robbed the present of its life, the past of its warmth and the future of its promise. I sit down thinking how to put down in words that moment when I felt I could say, “I’m looking forward to . . . ”

I want to capture that moment somehow, if only in a few words written late at night while thinking of other things.

But I am interrupted by little feet coming up the stairs. And then those eyes . . . so lost. So hurt. So alone. And little LE leans her her head against my shoulder.

“I miss Tiggy.”

And the tears begin to flow. Her whole body shakes as I hold her and my own tears begin to fall.

I don’t know what to tell her. There are all the things I’ve said a thousand times before, but I still don’t know what to say. I want to take this burden from her, cry out to take this burden as mine and mine alone and scream that this just isn’t fair. So I hold her and don’t say anything at all.

But Mookie has something to say. He slides down out of the chair next to me and hugs his big sister. Peering around her side, he looks up at her tear stained face.

“Hi?’

He says in the gentlest, most loving voice.

“Hi?”

And she looks at him and he smiles softly.

“Oh, Mookie,” she says, and gives him a hug.

He catches the edge of her pajama top and tugs until she starts to follow. He leads her in a circle, around and around until she smiles.

“Where are you taking me, Mookie?” she laughs.

He stops to giggle and clap. They’re both giggling now.

And I never knew you could hurt so much and feel so blessed all at the same time.